Monday, July 13, 2009

Money == Happiness

Money can get you happiness. True. But there is a danger associate with it. When you start earning money, you will never know how much will be enough to get you happiness. And you will keep on earning it, trying to find happiness. And when you start enjoying happiness, more money can not get you more happiness. And eventually, money will not make you happy at all....


So, treat money a way to make yourself happy and not the happiness. Spend it, wisely to get happiness. And one day you will die happy, may be like MJ, who died in debt, but enjoyed every bit of money he had :)

Saturday, July 11, 2009

Ladies, Please... Driving is NOT your cup of tea...

When I wrote last time about the mis-experiments of lady drivers I was criticised for being so prejudiced. But in the last few days I got two more reasons why I was right..

I was waiting for bus when I met the first lady. The drain was cleaned and the slabs over it was not aligned properly. Our lady managed to get the front wheel on the slab, but somehow stopped in between. She tried hard but the car moving backwards !! At last it stopped with a bang and then she managed to steer it ahead. The bang was because she bumbed into the following car !!! Funny thing is that, she didn't notice it and moved ahead. The guy in the second car stopped her little ahead, but I missed the scene as my bus arrived by then.

And in the second incident, another lady was driving fast completely unaware that she got a flat tyre. I heard a noise and was checking whether it was from my bike. Then I saw this Zen overtaking me with a flat tyre... When the air press sure is less, we can feel that the car is not balanced well. Here with a complete flat tyre she was cool... And when she was stopped by another biker, she got out and was wondering how come that happened to her...!!!

Wednesday, July 8, 2009

How Persuasive is Love..

Love..
Is it just a bond between two hearts, souls or body.. A commitment between two... Promise to keep each other happy, complete...

You know you love somebody when you think about it most of your time. And felt bad when you hurt her / him. How far you expect each other to go to make other happy. You know you can't stand the tears and you can not cry either fearing it my make her sad... Still at times you end up hurting though you cry inside more than other.

Hope all the tears will become smiles, everlasting smile soon...

Dreams, love, bond, laugh, peace...
It is the essence of life..

Tuesday, July 7, 2009

Silly Little Happinesses..

Last weekend I was home. I visited my good old friend on saturday. There his daughter was getting ready to go back to work. So I sugested I will drop her and take my friend for a drive too. He was surprised, but just for a split second and accepted my offer with great pleasure. His wife also joined us. And when we started, he placed his hand on my shoulder ( I was driving ) and told me that he is very happy to have a friend like me... He was almost in tears and the ladies in the back were teasing him ( punningly as they also can't stand his tears).

Here is the twist in the story. My friend is not well. He survived a stroke, but still has difficulty in walking. His life is almost limited to four walls. He wanted to go out badly but was not able to. They booked a cab, but at the last minute, knowing it's only a small trip, the driver stepped back.


I made him happy. And I am happy for him too. But at times, I do wonder am I making all the moves right.. Am I making those who really matter happy.. And if not, why it is so... And above all I sometime wonder am I making myself happy... Or defining happiness in some fragile, invisible curves on faces...