The End Of Week..Also The Weekend..

Hi,
Like I said in the last post, last week was very busy. But the way it ended, I loved it... I was home.. And I never get enough of home.. Mom, dad... They never really get enough of time chat or cooking or advising or plan for me. Me too... And last weekend, as I was on road most of saturday, they really gave it a miss.

Saturday was a big day for me. Really HUGE one... I lost something only to gain a lot more... What I lost was my cyber friend... And I got was a better, closer one...

I have(d) a cyber friend. Whom till saturday I met only on net or phone. Still she managed to be an important person in my life. ( most probably because of our common friend. He is a gem ;) ). I am very choosy about friends. And I will call one friend only after I know them close. I guess I know her close, but without meeting her... I remember when she gave me her phone number, I first denied it for being only a cyber friend.. But then we started chatting on phone and all. I saw her on photos too. But the lady on face... It was unexpected...


We hear a lot about cyber friends meeting face to face and all the &%_* about it. This lady calls herself a princess, and when I meet her she was not !!! Except for the earrings may be.. It was huge and all glitters for her small round face ( only the size of an apple ;) ). But by the time we were leaving I indeed realised that she is a princess.... We parted closer and content...

One thing I forot to mention.. Her boy friend also was with us all the time.. :D :D :D


And all this happiness was not killed but faded by a movie. Delhi 6.. Give it a miss. What a mess it is. After Rang De Basanti, Rakesh Om Prakash Mehra, the director, went to movies and collected people's feedback. He didn't do it for his first one Aks though... If he dared to do it for Delhi 6, he wouldn't have been survived for his fourth one...

A Week So Happening...

This week is going to be a busy one for many reasons. I am finding it difficult to digest how come so many things happening in such a short time. But sorry I can not share everything here. Hope by the end of this I will be able to smile about it.

One important milestone (!) in this week was I started taking lunch to office. That too prepared at home. I was planning this for a long time. One of my roommate has supported it too. Bought a new lunch box and started it from yesterday. It is fun to see those I-can't-believe- it look from colleagues. Hope it will last long.. ;) For the 235 for the lunch box and a new non-scratch scrubber, I got to continue this.

But a big sad news kept all the smiles at bay. My dearest colleague has lost her mom... She was the one always pushing me to bring lunch. I know how close she was to mom... Though she told she had accepted it and happy for mom that she didn't have to struggle, has done the things she always wanted to do... I can feel the tears in her voice... I don't know how I will face her on Monday. May God rest the soul in peace...

The Real Courage..

What it takes the most courage...
I believe it is to admit that others are / can be right or they can do things which you can never think of... Do I need to explain... The first thing we need to win to enjoy life and appreciate others is ego. But that, most often will decide and dictate what you have to do... And then, we oversee the other point of view. It is ok to have an expectation and plan of things in our life. But when we try to judge others our way, things will go havoc... Why should we let that happen to our life.. Judge things and people after you know them, and never stick with the first impression. It can be the most stupid thing at times.

Open up your mind. Please let yourself know that others are also smart, they can take right decisions and plan well. They might saw something that you haven't. They may be just thinking ahead of you... So appreciate them and like the courage they have to think and do different. Just because others are not following what we expect them to be, doesn't mean that they are wrong... Good Luck...